How to Deal With a Narcissist

In my newest book: How to Awaken the New Earth with Archangel Uriel, he addresses dealing with a narcissist. Check out what he said below.

Narcissistic People

I know you like to categorize some into the narcissistic personality, but have you ever wondered what that is?

Let me give you an inside scoop about that. A narcissistic personality is labeled as anyone who doesn’t listen to others needs, emotions, and does what they want to do. They are all about themselves, and they need to be praised for everything. If you criticize them, they grow angry or throw a fit.

Let’s break this down really simple.

A narcissist has no personal power. If you are intermingling with someone with these traits, you can see how they constantly make you or others to blame. When stepping into your own personal power, be aware of people who will try to squelch it.

Stepping Into Your Power is Love

Having personal power does not mean you are a narcissist. In fact, in means the exact opposite. A narcissist feeds on the power of others. They use anger, judgement, blame, and everything within their power to make you the culprit for their problems.

They don’t take responsibility for their actions and how they hurt others. These people have zero power. They may seem like they are those who are in control, boss people around, and demand attention from others, but that’s the thing.

Since they have zero personal power, they demand others’ power and attention to feed them. It’s a disease. When you look at someone who has a mental disorder or disease, do you grow angry at them for it? Or do you try your best to understand it, so that you can both be healthy?

When facing this disorder, stand in your own power, and don’t allow them to manipulate, control, or demand anything of you. Stick to your guns. They may even say you are the narcissist for not obeying what they want from you. If you know it goes against your heart, stay true to that.

They will soon feed on someone else. I know that sounds sad, and you may want to warn people about their behavior, but many times the narcissist will make you look like the bad guy in it all. They will play the poor me card with others, until they gain a following.

Don’t worry about that. They will be found out. If people are around them long enough, their mental disorder will peek out. I am not saying be unkind to those with this disorder, but stay in your own personal power. That’s the key in it all.

If you feel your emotions are in turmoil about them, ask yourself a few questions:

• Why do I feel I need to save them?

• Can I make them change? (The answer is no)

• Can I help them learn their lessons? (Again no)

• Why do I feel responsible for what they do?

When you operate in the New Earth mindset, you will easily see this disorder, as well as those who allow themselves to be used by them. It may make you angry to see people follow a narcissistic person, and you may even attempt to disengage that connection.

I want to give you a fair warning. If the follower is not ready to disengage and accept their own personal power (because those who feed a narcissist have no power either) your power will be attacked next.

Those who aren’t ready to see it, won’t. They will end up speaking ill of you. Such as: you broke up my relationship. 

If a narcissist feels they are losing control, they will freak out. They will start to snoop out why their partner/friend or whatever is suddenly resisting their need to control them. Be warned about this. They may come at you, so you must be prepared to handle this kind of battle if you engage.

We know you have compassion on these sheep-type people, but be aware. If you are ready to handle this situation, and you feel the person under control is ready for it, proceed with caution.

Affirmation

I step into my personal power.

If you'd like to read more of Archangel Uriel's messages check out my book: How to Awaken the New Earth With Archangel Uriel